My Work Week

Work wear does not have to be plain or boring. Using your accessories can liven up the most monochromatic outfit. Some great shoes can add style and flare to your Casual Friday look. Always remember to add a fun flare to keep it interesting and keep it YOU! 

Today's outfit was purchased at Target! $15 for the dress and $20 for the hat :)

Top 10 Wardrobe Essentials- Essential #8

Wardrobe Essential #7 is the Cardigan!

The cardigan is essential because it changes the look of an outfit. Why is this important? You know that dress you love... you know, the one you've worn roughly a thousand times? How about that t-shirt you just can't get enough of? Putting a cardigan on over your dress or tee will completely change the look of the outfit. Plus, cardigans and camis are the easiest way to make an outfit come together.

How to Wear a Cardigan

I honestly don't know why all of my chosen looks came out ubber-feminine today, but they did. Anyway...

The first look is a day-to-night look. The sparkly top is offset by the grey cardigan and darker denim. The cardigan has a fun shape and ubber-feminine appeal. The rose detail makes it a statement piece instead of just a piece to keep you warm. The shape of this cardigan could work for the skinny girl as well as those who fall somewhere in the middle but curvier girls should avoid this particular cut.

The second look is another meet-the-parents outfit. It's "buttoned up" and polished. The shoes give it an added flair but this cardigan is a bit more plain, and that's okay, it simply means it is a bit more versatile. And versatility is key in your wardrobe essentials. This is a good shape for all sizes. It skims your body without gripping it. It is easy to belt and it is easy to leave open.

The third look is just a fun girlie look for anytime. The cardigan is detailed and creates such visual interest. This may not be as versatile as the other two, because of its design, but it is still a piece that will attract attention. This style should be avoided by women with large chests. Ruffles are not your friends.

A few more tips:

• To create an hourglass shape buy wrap cardigans.
• If you have a large chest stay away from anything that clasps or ties at the neck. You want the visual line to be broken under your breasts. Empire waist, belted or wrap cardis are the way to go.
• If you have large hips avoid the longer cardigans. It is not distracting or covering, it is attracting (and not in a good way).
• Skinny girls, rock the ubber-long cardi... It will look fabulous on you! Draped looks work best on a lanky figure. If you have a fit body grab one with a belt that cinches around your waist.
• Anything that can be belted is always a good thing.
• A sweater set is always a good option. It takes some of the guess work out of getting dressed in the morning. Just make sure you are purchasing two separate pieces, not a faux undershirt. These have a tendency to not fit correctly.
• Avoid fabrics that are too thick because this should be a piece you can wear for three of the four seasons. (I am discounting Summer. Who wears a cardi in the Summer LOL).

Latest Purchases

These are my latest purchases! Bought the dress on bottom for an interview! I absolutely LOVE NY&CO.!!!

Top 10 Wardrobe Essentials- Essential #6

Let's talk shoes!!!

Shoes can make or break a wardrobe just as easily as refusing to buy shapewear. Why? They finish the look of your outfit. I have to admit, I am a bit of a shoe-junkie. I cannot stop myself from buying the next big shoe trend. I have some red heels with spikes all over them. I have a pair of TOMS. I have ballet flats in all different colors... it's an addiction. But I'm not here to talk about my shoe addiction, I am here to address some DOs and DON'Ts in the realm of shoes, as well as remind you what shoes you should be purchasing.

Since it's spring, and summer is just around the corner, I figured I would address sandals first.

Who doesn't love a good sandal? They are versatile and airy. They can be worn with shorts or jeans and still look great. They compliment skirts well. There is a lot that can be said about a good sandal.

Now to address some issues:

BUY LEATHER!!!- This is essential in choosing a good sandal. Leather is comfortable and will not scratch your feet up like the fake plastic ones will. Why spend $30 on a pedicure just to have your shoes destroy it?

NO FLIP FLOPS OR CROCS!!!- This does not a sandal make... When I am talking about sandals I would like you to take in the picture above. Yes there is a pair of LEATHER thongs but they are not the $3 plastic things that engulf half of your local Old Navy. I have nothing against Old Navy and in fact I shop there quite often, I just wish they would STOP promoting flip-flops as the GO-TO sandal. Flip-flops were made for the beach and the dorm hall showers. Do I even need to say why Crocs are a bad idea? I think not!!!

Sandals should reflect your personal style. - Don't go out and buy the cutest pair of sandals you can find just because I told you to. See the black gladiators? I own some like those, a lot of what is in the above picture is too cutesy for me but I have found gladiators have just enough of an edgy look that I am more than willing to wear them. On the flip side, gladiators have an edgier look to them... if that's not your style, don't buy them. Maybe the red one with the hearts suits you more. That is more than okay. We do not all have the same style and it would be a really boring world if we did.

Shoe #2- The Wedge!!
Okay, I am aware that this is not everyone's favorite style of shoe but it is an essential because it brings a fun and funky quirk to your wardrobe. They are GREAT shoes to wear with jeans! They are also a summer/spring essential because you can walk a long distance in a nice platform heel without taking the pain, and sinking heel episodes, you would have in your heels. They come in so many different styles I had a hard time trying to decide which ones to showcase in my picture.

And shoe #3- HEELS!!!!

Every woman should have 2-3 pairs of KILLER heels! These are the shoes that make you feels sexy and empowered! Do they have to be 5inches tall? NO! (although, you wouldn't know by looking in MY closet LOL) But they do nee to be a height that allows you a level of confidence.

The Kitten Heel- Even though there are none shown in the above picture, I know of a few women who are completely satisfied with just an inch or so. These styles can be just as sexy.

The Platform Heel- There are a few of these above so there is no need for a picture here, but the platform of today is not the platform of the 70's. (Even though, there are some of those around too). The platform has a 1-2inch rise at the ball and a substantial heel on the back. This allows for extra height as well as a sexy, long line. I am a short, squat woman so any added length to my nubs is welcome!

The Pointy-Toe- Okay, we all know what this is and we either love it, or hate it. I will tell you now, if you hate it, you are doing yourself a disservice. These shoes allow for a flow of the eye-line, causing you to look longer, and essentially leaner. If you have had a problem with the pointy toe being too narrow, you are probably buying, either too high of a heel or a crappy product. First, this shouldn't be an issue if you are buying leather. Leather gives and will form to your foot after you break them in. Yes, the first few times you wear them, they could be a bit snug but like I said, leather gives. Second, if you are buying a higher quality product you shouldn't have to worry about them hurting your feet. They are more expensive for a reason. Spend $50-$100 for a good, quality pair of pointy toed shoes and you will not regret it.

If there are shoes I did not list here... they are NOT wardrobe essentials. Of course, there are styles that suit individual tastes (ie, TOMS) but that does not make them key, or essential to building a working wardrobe. Tennis shoes and flip-flops are the enemy of great style, so if these are your go-tos, I would seriously advise you to change it up. Tennis shoes were made for sports and the gym, not for the fashion forward diva!

Top 10 Wardrobe Essentials - Essential #3

Essential #3 is the suit!

Okay, so you are sitting there saying to yourself... Why on earth would I need a suit? I am not a professional. I am too young to wear a suit. I am too fashion forward to wear a suit.

This is where you are WRONG! I am not even asking you to wear a suit. I am not saying that the suit you buy should be worn once a week. I am saying, you will get TWO essential wardrobe items out of a suit!!!

Piece #1
The Blazer- Okay, a fitted blazer looks good on ANY body type. It's shape allows any woman the ability to seem like she has an hourglass figure. The lady above is pencil thin and has no chest or hips to speak of BUT the suit gives her the illusion of an hourglass shape. It's nipped at her smallest point and flares out towards her hips

How to Wear a Blazer

Above are some ways to wear a blazer. Example #1 is a casual daytime look that can easily be worn at night. Example #2 is a night out look. Example #3 is a daytime look. All three use the blazers from a suit. Note that NONE of the blazers are boring. The one on the left is even bright pink and there is nothing wrong with that.

Piece #2 - The pencil skirt, a-line skirt or dress pants

All three are wardrobe essentials, so no matter which one you choose you can't go wrong :)

How to wear a pencil skirt

Example #1 is a work-to-night look. Examples 2 and 3 are fun and flirty day looks. A pencil skirt shouldn't be just for the office or limited to the professionals. They showcase curves and give the illusion of curves to those who don't have any.

How to Wear an A-Line Skirt

KEEP IT SIMPLE! The fullness of the a-line is all the accessory you need. Adding too much can make the outfit seem bulky. It's fine to have some embellishment (see Ex. #2) but make sure your top half is fitted. Also, larger girls should look for A-lines that do not have too much extra bulk. The lining should be thin and the skirt itself shouldn't have too much extra fabric.

How to Wear Dress Pants

In this example I will give my best example for each body type (Skinny, Medium and Luscious)

In Example #1 I have paired cropped, skinny, floral pants with a funky racer-back top! This is a fun and funky look only you skinny girls can pull off. Embrace the big floral prints because they look FAB on you. In

Example #2 I went with a wide-leg dress pant and a peplum inspired top. This outfit will hide anything you have problems with and enhance your figure. If you are medium-but curvy this look will still work for you, just make sure you have a GREAT bra!!!

And for Example #3, the straight leg pant is the BEST option for the thicker girl (make SURE you have figured out your size before purchasing a pair or you WILL look lumpy!!) because these pants work with your curves without adding to them. The pants above have a slight boot-cut and that is fine but avoid anything that says flare. Layering pieces also allows for the illusion of curves (if you need it) and hides flaws (if you need to) and the pointy toe on the shoe also helps to elongate the body.

Now you can see why most stylists add this to their essential's arsenal! It is a fabulous way to add so many elements of style to your wardrobe!

Hope you've found some inspiration today!!

How to Make Spring's Trends Work For You! Neon

And for the final trend of the season!

Trend #10 - NEON
Who doesn't love an 80's throwback! Harem-pants, neon, side-ponys, they have all made their fabulous come-back this season and in season's past. Now, I am not a fan of harem-pants (ehem, Hammer-pants) but the other two trends I have embraced fully. Even tights with skirts/dresses was embraced in the 80's.

For the luscious ladies - This trend can be EXTREMELY hazardous for you! Neon is not your friend. Anything you put a neon color on is going to look bigger! It will show EVERY lump and bump you have. Am I saying "Don't embrace this trend!"? Of course not. All I am saying is do not wear a solid neon top or pair of pants/skirt. Find patterns with neon colors! I right now am wearing a top with a neon green and black pattern. Also, do not forget, purses, shoes, even nail polish this season had been touched by neon. Above is some nail polish I purchased this season. The wonderful neon colors have infiltrated almost everything this season so keep your eye out for the patterned dress, the nail polish. And, DO NOT buy anything in neon that is clingy. Yes, that t-shirt is a wonderful shade of green and it looks fab with your skin tone, but also notice that where it clings is where the eye is going to go, all of your flaws will be showcased.

For the skinny girl - Wear neon EVERYTHING! Neon can give you the illusion of curves because it is a color that deflects light. With the rays bouncing off of you, you will have an amazing figure and people will be astonished at your overnight transformation. This is another chance for you to rock the color-block as well. See the skirt above? It's sexy, it's fabulous and you are the only one who can pull it off!

For the in-betweens - Use caution with this trend. It's a fun way to show off your flirtatious side. Keep the neon to the part of your body you are most comfortable with. A neon top on a small chest can make it look much bigger. Neon deflects light and therefore will make you look curvier than you really are. Big hips? Avoid the neon skirt/pants, it will only make them look bigger. Make this trend work for you. Again, I want to reiterate the thing I seem to say to YOU most often, DON'T let the clothes wear you, YOU wear the clothes. If you are comfortable with your body (and have no tummy, back fat or cellulite) try an all over, solid color. *See pink dress above

How to Make Spring's Trends Work for You! Color-Blocking

According to People's Style Watch there are 10 must-have/must-try trends for spring! Over the course of the next week and a half I will cover each trend. I have to say I am on-board with the 80's throwbacks coming out this season, as well as the reintroduction of the platform (my 5'4" body loves this very much). I am drooling over the color-blocked platforms that are all over the fashion websites and magazines. I am even happy about leather's amazing return (as if it ever truly goes out of style!).

Now to address some of the problems with said trends and how to make them work for your specific body:

Trend #1 - COLOR-BLOCKING
Many of you may be wondering what color-blocking actually is. Well, remember those baseball tees everyone loved for so long? You know, the tees with the contrasting sleeves? That's color-blocking. This season everything from shoes, to handbags, to dresses are sporting this design.

For the thick girl: COLOR-BLOCKING CAN BE HAZARDOUS FOR YOU!!! (And me too!) This is where you have to be a bit creative. Mix and match colors. A bold colored top with a vibrant belt and contrasting skinnies could work well for you. However, if you have a large chest and you decide to wear a color-blocked top, guess what... You will look like you have an even larger chest! Same goes for skirts and big booties. On the flip side, finding a dress with a thick band of fabric running straight down the front can make you look skinnier. Always remember, vertical lines are your best friend :) If you are too afraid to try the bold combo of contrasting top and bottoms or even unsure of the dress option there is a solution! HANDBAGS AND SHOES!!! (See Above!!)

For the skinny girl: ROCK THE COLOR-BLOCK! Try it with EVERY item of clothing. This trend was meant for YOU! Anything from a skirt, to a top, to a dress! Keep your accessories simple and understated and let your outfit take center-stage. Jessica Simpson's Spring Collection was also meant for you! (Won't lie, gonna buy a dress from it myself!) Also, another great spring trend is neon! Mixing the two will work for you! Own it because this isn't a trend meant for the masses!

For the in-betweens: My only advice to you is keep color-blocking away from your problem areas. It will NOT mask it, it WILL exaggerate it. 

 

*The above picture is pulled from my Polyvore account.